Jaclyn Smith, known for her role as Kelly Garrett on “Charlie’s Angels,” shared insights about her life and marriages in her memoir, “I Once Knew a Guy Named Charlie.” Smith, 80, described how love found her unexpectedly and how she and her fourth husband, Dr. Brad Allen, lived apart for 17 years of their 35-year relationship.
Meeting Dr. Brad Allen
Smith met Dr. Brad Allen in 1991 during her father’s heart surgery. Allen moved to Chicago for work at the University of Illinois two years after their meeting, while Smith remained in Los Angeles. Despite this distance, they eventually married in 1997, after getting to know each other deeply.
Family and Marriage
Smith emphasized that her children influenced her decisions regarding love and marriage. When she and Allen married in Los Angeles, her daughter served as maid of honor, and her son gave her away. Allen relocated to be with her in 2009.
Smith discussed how marriage involves building a life rather than only falling in love. She spoke about sharing values and priorities, crucial elements in relationships, with Allen supporting her through her breast cancer diagnosis in 2002.
Previous Marriages
Smith’s first marriage was to Roger Davis, whom she married in 1968. She later discovered his infidelity, leading to their separation. In her memoir, Smith shares a candid account of her naïveté and the lessons learned.
Her second husband, Dennis Cole, also betrayed her trust, which led to their separation in 1981. Her third marriage to British cinematographer Anthony Richmond introduced challenges due to his substance abuse issues, ultimately ending their marriage.
Insights and Lessons
Despite past hardships, Smith cherishes the bond found in committed love, as illustrated by her brother’s long-lasting marriage. She acknowledges the value of aligned values and shared paths.
Reflecting on missed opportunities, such as a potential role with Warren Beatty, Smith expresses contentment with the unpredictability of her career and life choices. She found success with “Charlie’s Angels” and a fulfilling personal life in her own unique way.
Personal Reflections
Through writing her memoir, Smith realized her strength shaped by both triumphs and setbacks, learning to prioritize her children’s well-being above all. Her journey shows resilience, emphasizing family values and personal growth.