An influencer’s recent encounter with a flight attendant has sparked discussion about the role of airline staff. Dominique Elissa, who is pregnant, shared her story on the ‘Big Small Talk’ podcast, revealing an awkward situation during a flight.
The Incident
Elissa recounted asking a male flight attendant to help lift her luggage into the overhead bin. She explained that due to her pregnancy, she was advised not to lift heavy items. Her luggage weighed nearly 9 pounds. The flight attendant declined, stating that if she couldn’t place it herself, it would need to be checked. The specific airline involved was not disclosed.
Ultimately, another passenger noticed and assisted her.
I was just so shocked,Elissa said, reflecting on the experience.
Expert Opinions
Fox News Digital spoke with etiquette expert Diane Gottsman from the Protocol School of Texas. Gottsman pointed out that flight attendants are there for customer service but not for handling luggage. Airline policies and safety rules discourage them from lifting heavy bags.
She advised travelers unable to manage their own carry-on luggage to consider checking their bags. Passengers should not expect flight attendants or fellow travelers to assist, although some may offer help out of kindness.
If you cannot lift your bags, then you should politely ask another passenger, Gottsman recommended.
Online Reactions
The situation drew mixed reactions on social media. Some users expressed surprise, noting that they had seen flight attendants help in similar situations. Others agreed it is not the attendants’ responsibility.
One commenter shared, I was under the impression flight attendants aren’t allowed to lift bags into the overhead bins.
Another added, Not their job! If you cannot lift your bags, then you should politely ask another passenger.
This incident highlights a broader conversation on travel etiquette and expectations for both airline staff and passengers.