During a backyard gathering in Los Angeles, a casual chat led to a discussion about ‘Disney adults’. These individuals are often misunderstood by those who do not share their passion for Disney. I proudly mentioned having an annual pass to Disneyland, which elicited varied reactions. My friend, trying to diffuse any discomfort, suggested I was more of a ‘goth Disney’ enthusiast, but I reaffirmed my simple enjoyment of being a Disney adult.
For many, including my colleague Shane Croucher at Newsweek, the idea of adults visiting Disney without children is baffling. Shane suggested that these adults should reconsider their choices. While his critique resonated with some, it also sparked backlash on social media. I cheekily defended my stance, arguing that my enjoyment at Disney isn’t something to outgrow.
The parks are often viewed as spaces for parents with children. This perception overlooks the profound experiences adults have at Disney. Society doesn’t chide adults who engage in other leisure activities like sports. So why should Disney be any different?
Disney’s magic isn’t just for children. It lies in the small joys, like seeing a child’s face light up upon meeting Mickey. My own appreciation for Disney has deep roots. During my childhood, my parents’ divorce left few opportunities to bond with my mom, but Disney movies became our special connection. A memorable experience involving ‘The Little Mermaid’ cemented my love for Disney, leading to lasting traditions.
As an adult, I’ve found new meanings in my Disney visits. My partner and I bonded over it, intertwining Disney with significant life events. To us, and many others, Disney is not a sign of immaturity, but a celebration of joy and shared memories.
Some question why adults would cling to such joy, assuming an inability to grow up. However, revisiting these memories is a conscious choice, not a sign of neglecting adulthood. It exemplifies the mature decision to cherish happiness. Observing Disney’s magic and generating new stories is a privilege we embrace.