Dear Eric,
I have been married to my spouse for 12 years. Throughout our relationship, we have maintained a respectful dynamic, refraining from fighting or name-calling. We generally agree on most matters. However, there is a persistent issue regarding our mismatched sex drives.
While we share mutual respect, I recognize that my feelings have shifted over time. The prolonged avoidance of addressing this disparity has left me feeling indifferent. Despite my efforts to bring about change and improve our situation, ignorance on this front has led to strain. I find myself at a loss for how to move forward effectively.